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That time we ended up down an Ali Express Rabbit hole of BDSM toys and bought some paddles.

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And I love them! Steve not so much. So, sometimes, when he wants to be, Steve can be a very good boy, he likes to send me links and show me BDSM toys he thinks I might like – even if he knows he would hate them. I swear, the boy is genuinely so masochistic to the core, it’s a beautiful thing, even if he has zero concept of self-preservation.  Anyway, he sent me a link to beautiful looking paddles on Ali Express. I’m not going to tell you what they call them, because that would be long, and both over, and under descriptive. But there are a series of different sizes, thicknesses, patterns and colours of acrylic paddles. At the price of them, we were not expecting anything amazing, but we were genuinely blown away when they arrived. We purchased Paddle E a traditional style spanking paddle with a black handle, Paddle K Pineapple, a small roundish paddle with lines cut into it for texture, and Paddle G, a plain long ruler style paddle. Check out the link to see the options. https://www...
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Chain Shackles – Quick release for non-rope bondage

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  For any kind of strap/cuff etc bondage go buy these!!! So, we don’t do rope bondage – we use it as part of our strap/cuff bondage but due to medical reasons we can’t use it where it has contact with skin.  However, I have sometimes found myself fighting to release Steve from tight bondage when trying to get D Clips or carabiners open, as the loops get stuck, and I have to pull against him or the straps to get him out, this is not ideal at the end of a scene when we are both already tired, but also in an emergency, pulling against him can exacerbate any issues and problems. The we went B&Q (a UK based shop, but I’m sure you could find similar in any local hardware shop). We found Bow Shackles.  The are the fasted quick release securing mechanism we have found. All I have to do is unscrew the securing bolt and the rings on the straps, or on cuffs etc. just drop out immediately. They made of stainless steel, and come in packs of one for approximately £3.50 each, not th...
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Spiked clover clamps

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The day we found Nipple clamps that really worked for us. So, we have always had a few issues with nipple clamps. Steve has small nipples, very small. Much to my frustration, most nipples clamps will not stay on easily and eventually slide off, so are never on for very long. We have tried a variety of different styles, and while needle tip clamps will stay on – I get tired of listening to him moan and complain the entire time they are on – and no gag will stop this boy making his displeasure known – such a brat. Anyway, on another of his journeys down the long tunnels of the internet he came across these clover clamps on Etsy - https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/1054897598/unique-customised-clover-nipple-clamps While scary looking and certainly not for a first timer nipple clamper, these have solved all our nipple clamp issues. The spikes hold the skin in place, and we have been able to hang weights on them, pull on them, and leave them on for hours at a time without slipping, and they ha...
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A Little Bit About Us

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  Medusa Storm I started my journey in BDSM as a spanko and will always at heart be a spanko. Once upon a time I considered myself submissive, but in reality I was just a bottom and one hell of a masochist. As I have grown up and learned more, I know Mistress is the title I will always prefer, and dominant sadist my preferred hat. I still love to give a good spanking, and all the dynamics of the spanko scene, but my twisted wonderful mind enjoys so much more. I have been a member of the scene in Northern Ireland, Ireland, England and attended events in Canada. My core and primary kinks are power exchange, sadomasochism, chastity, CBT, discipline and impact play, with a heavy focus on spanking and all that entails. But I also adore sensation play, e-stim, bondage, humiliation, degradation, anal play, pegging and service submission. Steve9 He is a slave and a masochist, and has always been a slave and a masochist. Over the years he has been involved in the scene...
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